Friendship Call Participant – Clarissa

Clarissa has been receiving the befriending phone calls since November 2020. She originally received the befriending calls every week, is now on to fortnightly calls with the aim of ending the calls by the end of March. She was originally referred because she was very lonely and isolated, she suffered with depression and anxiety and Covid made everything feel worse for her. She only enjoyed playing on her PlayStation and watching tv.

She has spoken with the same experience volunteer since the beginning of 2021, in the space of time they have covered a wide range of topic and have got Clarissa to the point where she feels like she no longer needs to receive weekly calls. Clarissa is now going out a lot more often and feels her depression and anxiety are at a manageable level now and she feels like she can cope without the weekly support.

Her volunteer has been weaning off the calls so instead of over and hour call they are down to about 20 minutes and the plan is to gradually reduce the time until they are no longer needed completely.

Friendship Call Participant – Alice

Alice has been receiving the befriending phone calls since June 2020. She is a very lively colourful character; she is wheelchair bound but doesn’t let it stop her from living her life to the full. She has recently had some major health issues which have made her have to change a lot of her ‘normal’ life, she now has carers coming in 3 times a day, many hospital appointments and long stints in hospital.

Alice has spoken to the same volunteer for over 18 months, and they have developed a true friendship. They speak every Monday afternoon, Alice said the calls are the highlight of her week because she can live vicariously through her volunteer, the share gossip on what’s been going, tv show suggestions, and have a rant about whatever they feel like and set the worlds to rights.

Alice has said repeatedly to her volunteer how much the calls have helped her during this new phase of her life.

They have spoken about how the changes to Alice’s life aren’t as bad as Alice originally thought, Alice said that she originally felt like her life was over and now she feels like it’s not the end just a new way of life. She now sees that her life has changed but it’s not in a bad way, yes, she has more hospital visits, but that means they and she know about her health issues and what they are dealing with.

Making Our Money Go Further

By Sharon Smith and Lynn Clarkson, Community Energy Advisors

We met a group of ladies at the Salvation Army Kimberworth Playgroup, who were happy to engage in conversation with regards to budgeting, money and saving money.

They shared amongst themselve some idea to save money,

“We share mealtimes at each other’s homes”.

“Help each other save money”.

“Save clothing to pass on to younger children”.

“Food share / bulk buying food”.

These ladies have a strong friendship that brings out the best in each other and just a small amount of change can be positive. They have found themselves in situations where support is needed but have helped each other.

Moving forward they said would they like to start growing their own vegetables and pass all the good ideas on to others.

Upon reflecting on the morning and the feedback from the ladies, they expressed a desire that they would like to do more and that they were quite focussed and strong willed.

We will support them to move forward and keep this good story going, we will also have regularly updates over the coming months.       

Swinburne Social Club

By Rob Gooding, Community Organiser

Swinburne social club have been running regular Sunday lunches and breakfast clubs for almost a year now, these are the perfect place to interact and meet new friends in a relaxed environment. The group deliver lunches to members that can attend the sessions in person.

In January it looked like the group may need to suspend these sessions, as their food hygiene certificates were due to run out and they were unsure of where they could source and pay for this training. This was distressing for members as for a lot of them these are the only social interactions they have during the week. Determined not to let these sessions stop the group reached out to us for help with training to enable the sessions to restart. I’m pleased to report that two members of the group have now been trained to level two in Food Hygiene and after only three weeks of the sessions being stopped that they restarted on the 28th February. The group are now looking into doing a Fire Marshall course so they can hold their second South African themed BBQ event, this was an extremely successful event last time they held it.

New RotherFed Member – Friends of Trinity Croft

By Dan Barron and Sam Dixon, Heart of the Community Project Workers

Trinity Croft C of E primary school in Dalton have not had a Parent Teacher Association or community group supporting the schools’ projects in a number of years. The headteacher brought together a group of parents and asked if RotherFed could support them to put together a constitution and ensure that they had the right tools to secure the groups sustainability.

The groups aim are:

  • To raise funds to help to support school associated activities.
  • To encourage a stronger community spirit.
  • To improve the school environment and the school community.
  • To encourage engagement from young people to get involved in fundraising and the wider school community.
  • To encourage parent involvement in school life.

The volunteers have become highly organised in a very short period having hosted several events. They held a Mother’s Day events where students could buy affordable presents for their family in the form of potted plants and flowers. The group have also organized a Christmas Fayre which was very well attended.

Collaborating with the school they are initially raising funds to match fund an eco-classroom. This will be used to enhance the outdoor space at the school and give pupils the opportunity to have more outdoor learning. The group have worked hard to put together successful fundraising events and are going from strength to strength. Now they have become official RotherFed members meaning that the group will be able to have continued support.

The Steadlands Neighbourhood Centre

By Rachel Cole, Senior Projects Officer

I first visited this Centre in April 2022; it was one of the Centres selected by RMBC to look at the usage.  This Centre is used every single day by a group of lovely residents who hold and run regular activities and events.  They see the Centre as an extension of their homes and say they would be lost without it; this is apparent in the Centre too as it has a lot of homemade furnishings around making it feel homely. As a lot of the residents live alone the Centre gives them the opportunity to get together and have a chat, without having to go far.

Since then, I have visited the group on many occasions.  On a weekly basis they hold coffee mornings, craft sessions, book club, film afternoons, games afternoons and bingo. They also hold afternoon teas or parties for special events i.e., Christmas, Easter etc as well as trips out.  They had a trip to the pantomime in January and this month visited the luncheon club at Dinnington Resource Centre, both of which they really enjoyed.  The are now planning events for Easter and the King’s Coronation. I have recently helped them with a leaflet giving details of everything that is happening in the Centre, this has been distributed to all residents to try and get more people involved in the group and using the Centre.

I submitted a ward housing hub proposal last year with this group for extra lighting around the bungalows and this has now been completed. This month a ward housing hub proposal has been put in for them to have a noticeboard outside the Centre.  

When I first met this group they really didn’t want to become a constituted group, therefore, I never pushed this. However, just recently they have talked more about this and would now like to investigate becoming constituted. I will support them with this. This is a lovely active group of residents who I enjoy working with. I will continue to support the group as and when required. 

Elizabeth Parkin TARA

Elizabeth Parkin TARA have gone from strength to strength since they were formed just over a year ago, the group are all residents of the bungalows that surround the centre that came together when lock down was lifted to create the group and host coffee mornings every two weeks, this soon evolved and the group started bingo sessions two days a week, had taster sessions of arts and crafts as well as chair exercise. The chair exercise sessions are designed to help the group with balance and general health while being a fun activity that all participants enjoy.

Over the year the group have become constituted, successfully applied for a bank account this has allowed the group to hold one off events like the jubilee party and their Christmas party both events being well attended by residents.

These sessions were so successful and enjoyed by the group that the group decided they would like to extend the chair exercise classes beyond the trial sessions, working with the group, Nick Harding and ward Cllr’s the group wanted to apply for ward funding to pay for these sessions, I’m pleased to say the group were successful in gaining the funding for this and the new exercise sessions begin on the 9th February and the group are currently looking at working with the collage to have the craft sessions re start in the next few months

Friendship Call Participant – Terry

Terry has been on the befriending call service for almost 18 months. His wife passed away in April and since then he has really been struggling to get out and keep active.

He told his volunteer that he goes to church and one of the congregation there has set him a challenge to help with his mobility and fitness, he has found himself stuck in a bit of a rut! The volunteer now checks in regularly to see how he is doing with the challenge! The challenge was to try and go for a little walk each day, every day increase the number of houses he walks past before turning back. Terry started with 2 houses, then 4, then 6 and so on. He is proud as punch and is very keen to inform his volunteer of his progress, so much so that his volunteer has now joined the challenge and is updating Terry on her progress each week, they have a mini competition going on. Terry started walking by going past just 2 houses, he can now do almost 40 and has said that if he gets to 50, he will be able to get to his local post office for his daily paper, he has set himself a challenge to do that as it will give him a chance to speak to someone every day whilst out.

Terry’s normal volunteer has been unwell, so his calls have been covered by a new volunteer, they both have strong accents, and it turns out they both originate from the same village in Kent. It just shows what a small world it is. They have been able to reminisce together despite the 50-year age gap, they  often spend up to an hour on the phone. It goes to prove that find the common ground and strong friendships are formed, again a testament to our wonderful volunteers.

Heart of the Community – The Community Tree

The Community Tree decided they wanted to do something at Christmas for the older residents in Canklow. They wanted to create something for local people to come together to help support others at Christmas during a cost of living crisis. “We understand how Christmas time can be one of the most isolating times of the year, we want to help remind our community that we are here for them and that residents have somewhere to turn to in times of need.”

The group created the “Blessing Box” project. The goods in the boxes were put together from donations from residents, local businesses, and partners. Funds were also raised to fill the boxes with essentials by members of the Community Tree attending a Christmas Fayre and by a successful bid for funding from elected members. Canklow Woods Primary School also engaged with the project with some of their young people making decorations and writing cards that got included with the boxes.

The residents who received the boxes had been identified by their friends, relatives or other residents who live in Canklow. The group put a post out through their social media asking for people to “Nominate a Neighbour” and received responses from their Facebook page and email. The nominations had to be for a person who lives in Canklow and are over the age of 65.

The boxes were delivered to 21 residents by Father Christmas and his team of elves in time for the Christmas celebrations to begin.

The feedback the group received was fantastic!! An incredible achievement for the community!!

Greasbrough Library

The Making Our Money Go Further (MOMGF) team attended a Coffee event at a library. We had a person come in who had broken down in front of us when they told us their money problem. We took them into a private room and the person told us they were on Universal credit which was their only income. They were a carer for their partner (a heart patient) who did not have UK citizenship who therefore could not claim other benefits such as PIP. The Energy bill was more than their universal credit income. The person was very worried and emotional. The person said they lived with their partner in their child’s house who pays the mortgage from their part time job. Their child is a student who helps them as much as possible being a student themself.

The MOMGF team took their details so that Citizens Advice could contact them within 48 hours, which the person was glad to hear. There was a little language barrier as the person was not fluent in English as it wasn’t their first language, so a note was made of this when referring to Citizens Advice. They also made the person aware of a foodbank near their home which may help a little in saving.

They also asked our colleagues from Energy Know How for their expertise. They also helped with a Winter Warm Pack and will have Green Doctor to come out and insulate their home for them.

Person had set out to walk 4 miles from the library back to their home.

Her bill was partly estimated (electricity). Her gas was accurate as readings were taken from her smart meter and her bill totalled £221.00 to pay which was scheduled to be taken by direct debit at the end of the month. She stated that she could not afford to pay this.

As she had was being referred to Citizens Advice by the money team for in depth support with her financial situation, they would include utility bills in their advice. We discussed with her how to check her meter readings and compare these to her bill to check whether the bill had been over-estimated.

She stated she used a lot of gas to keep her husband warm due to his heart issues. We discussed the possibility of turning the heating down slightly, putting it on one hour later or turning it off one hour later. She was worried about her husband getting cold, so we gave her two winter warmth packs containing blankets, gloves, hats, snoods, socks and soup and mugs.

We also discussed whether her home was draughty, and she said it was. We offered her a visit from the green doctors who are able to install draught proofing measures around doors and windows, fit radiator foils to help make her heating more efficient and also supply and fit up to 10 led lightbulbs which would help with her energy consumption. She was very appreciative of this offer and a referral was made for the works to be undertaken.

This example shows how much people are in need and how services such as ours help to give them a little boost and guide them to other services they may benefit from.